Wheather you are at a point either before or after completion of divorce proceedings. In either case a deeper commitment to God should be pursued.
Ever the Destroyer, Liar, Thief, and Deceiver, Satan"s lie is that problems will be solved by lowering God's standards(John 8:44, 1 Peter 5:8, James 1:25).
Please Read these Scriptures and Meditate on what God is saying to you.
Ask God for His perfect plan for your life.